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How Feminism Saved the World: The Power of a Woman

BY NAOMI SANCHEZ, 16

Disclaimer: There exists a false pretension in regards to the meaning of the word Feminism. Some have made this term to mean the root cause of lesbianism, hatred towards men, an affront Christian values and principles, and disruption of our civil society.

Feminism:

How I define it- A way to call out injustices based on gender, and to vouch for equality among both sexes. That’s it, nothing more, nothing less.

As women in this world, we are constantly fighting an uphill battle. A battle for equality and independence from the masculine political (i.e the Patriarchy) system. In this world, women are objectified, silenced, and taken advantage of.

What feminism does, is fight for women’s voices to be heard, and for a woman to become equal with a man, not just in the workplace, but in civic society, as well.

Let’s start off with the workplace:

I am a strong believer that sometimes statistics can speak just as much as words, so let’s take a look at this chart.

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As a woman, this chart breaks my heart and, at the same time, terrifies me. According to the facts, A man and I can both be 2-year vets at the same hospital, doing the exact same job, with the exact same hours. Yet, he’ll be payed more just because he is a male. This reflects a lot on our, “Equal” country.

As a feminist, I see as my duty to fight against this and demand for equal pay. Heck, it’s my duty as a woman to fight for my hardworking sisters out there (especially our single mothers.) We have to make equality in this country a reality (this doesn’t even include the racial/ethnic pay gaps, but that’s a completely different tangent that deserves its own post.)

Moving on to Civic society:

You see, we have 2 inequalities/injustices in Civic Society:

  1. A 17 year-old girl is walking down the street with a couple of her girlfriends, and a 20 something year-old man eyes her, like a hawk on his prey and starts whistling. Cat Calling. There are men out there (not all) that see women as toys. A toy for them to stare at lustfully, to touch without consent, and to think about in vulgar ways. We need to learn to not be silent or naïve to these behaviors. We need to stand up and be strong, independent women, who will not be fearful or naïve, but strive to make a change.

“Feminism isn’t about making women stronger. Women are already strong. It’s about changing the way the world perceives that strength” –G.D Anderson

  1. We have all heard the word “sexist”, or “sexism.” But, I want to throw in a better, more meaningful word: Misogyny. Misogyny is the hatred or mistrust of women because of gender. A woman not getting a job because she is seen as “incompetent” or “weak” is misogynistic. People try to use this construct to undermine the power and strength of women. So they might tell us to stay home, have babies, serve a man’s cevery beck and call, and stay out of politics. Being a stay at home mom isn’t wrong, by any means, it’s just they leave us with this only option. During the late 1800’s and early 1900’s, a bunch of beautiful, strong women fought for our right to vote. During World War 2, another bunch of beautiful, strong women decided to have jobs that only men were suppose to have, in order to help our country during their time of need. During the early 1960’s, another bunch of beautiful, strong women fought for the Equal Pay Act, but since it was during the Vietnam War, some women didn’t want it to go through, because they could be drafted. So it never happened. All of these women who fought for us, were fighting against Misogyny, and were feminists.

“Feminism is the radical notions that women are human beings.” –Cheris Krameare

Now let’s bring it on Home (literally):

“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:”

Proverbs 31:25-28 NIV

In the bible, it says that the man is the head of the household. But, hold on, wait a second, don’t get ahead of yourselves, this does not mean by any circumstance, that the woman is the servant, or slave to the man. Men are the protecters and head of the house, but women still have rights and a voice. Women can “share the pants”, too.

As for daughters, you can not raise your daughters in fear of the world. I believe, mothers should show their daughters, not solely how to clean or cook, but how to be strong, independent, and capable of being on their own. You can’t expect to keep your daughter in a bubble and wait for Prince Charming to knock on your door with a glass slipper, ready to carry her off into the sunset. What type of self-worth are you teaching them?

“A women with out a man is like a fish with out a bicycle” –Gloria Steinem

A fish does not need a bicycle to survive, nor does a women need a man to survive. Therefore, your daughters should know how to survive without one. Before you can survive with a man, you need to learn how to survive without one.

For the men out there:

Please respect the women out there, see them not only for their outer appearance, but as the precious jewels God created them to be. Respect their wishes and dreams. Respect their ideas, because trust me, they can be the future Esthers, Eleanor Roosevelts,and Susan B. Anthonys. Women have the Power to change the world. Trust your daughters and teach them what a real man should really act and be like. Love your sisters and protect them, from those who are against them. Care for your female friends and respect them. And lastly, shower your wives with praise for all that they do.

“If you stand for equality, then you’re a feminist. Sorry to tell you, You’re a Feminist.” –Emma Watson

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Rosabel Sanchez is a woman who loves God- serves Him with great humbleness, loves her family and friends- serves them with great love, and love life with such a great appreciation for all that she has been blessed with. She, her husband and 4 children lead two churches on the southwest-side of Chicago, where they all live. As I embark on this new journey, I pray and hope I can become a part of one of your daily practices- your morning inspiration, your afternoon break from the world, or your evening cool down. So join me with a cup of your choice- coffee, tea, chocolate- and you will be blessed with encouraging words to warm your heart & soul.

3 Comments

  1. Anonymous says

    Very well said, a woman should never be a second class human being, unless of course she allows it to be that way. Very proud of Naomi that being so young, knows her place in life, God made Eve out of Adams rib, to walk by his side, not to be stepped on! Praise to our Lord!

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  2. Yolanda Padilla says

    Bravo, bravissima – I love the conviction in which she writes. So much insight and relevant points. Very smart writing. I completely agree with all she addresses. As women we need to hear this from time to time. Thank you, thank you! Some of us as we get older we become that elephant that has been chained since early in life. Although we can now easily break away, we remain stuck. That which we have heard and seen during our growing up years tend to bond us for life. The truth shall set us free!

    … As my three year old says “more please”

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  3. Anonymous says

    The wage gap is a myth thats been debunked sooooo many times honestly why do people even reference it anymore. Heres some sources:
    http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/harvard-prof.-takes-down-gender-wage-gap-myth/article/2580405
    http://dailycaller.com/2016/04/12/equal-pay-day-revisited-why-the-gender-pay-gap-is-still-a-myth/
    http://www.forbes.com/sites/karinagness/2016/04/12/dont-buy-into-the-gender-pay-gap-myth/#2397e194766a

    Also the Equal Pay Act of 1963 makes paying women less illegal https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equal_Pay_Act_of_1963 You mentioned it in your post so idk why it didn’t click that its already illegal, therefor we don’t need any more laws or anything about it.

    The only other injustices towards women you mentioned were catcalling and women in the workplace.

    Complaining about catcalling is just useless, as its a minuscule problem. Some guy whistling at you or even saying “good day” doesnt warrant an entire movement of female justice. Also you should be grateful that as a women, you have a two times less of a chance to get violently assaulted by that man. http://www.victimsweek.gc.ca/res/r512.html

    Then to your idea that women aren’t welcome to be career women:

    That literally never happens women are pushed extremely hard in Western society to become career women. So yeah feminism is stupid and does nothing but cause more tension between the sexes. Cause u kno, we’re already equal.

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